With a personality test, you can quickly and effectively find out hidden truths about yourself.
One of the biggest difficulties for people at any stage of falling in love is figuring out what really matters to you and what you most deeply and secretly want to experience in a relationship.
When you meet someone you’re attracted to who also happens to be attracted to you, it feels like the whole world is pink.
This can be the case even if you’re not exclusively with someone, but are still living the single life with occasional dates, or if you’ve been in a committed relationship for a long time.
You want to be happy in a relationship, but you may not always know what that looks like for you, let alone what it could possibly mean.
With this personality test, you can find the answer.
There are numerous ways you can find out what you want most in your love life.
If you’re willing to put in the effort, there are therapists who will work one-on-one with you to determine your goals when it comes to love, and there are plenty of books, apps and TV shows that can help you figure out not only who you are, but what’s best for you when you enter into a partnership.
So if you don’t want to read self-help book after self-help book, at least not right now, we have another solution for you.
Take a look at the picture below and don’t forget what you saw first because it’s of great importance.
Then scroll down and find out what this personality test reveals about what’s secretly most important to you in love and relationships.
The boy by the tree
If the boy by the tree was the first thing you saw when you first looked at the picture above, you are a hopeful realist.
You know you shouldn’t assume that every first date will be your last, but you can’t help but think about how his last name sounds with your first name.
You’ve been through the dating experience, but you still believe in love.
You just don’t fall in love as quickly as you did at the beginning of this crazy journey.
You expect open communication and trust from a relationship.
You want someone who understands that a relationship only works if the partners put in the time and effort.
A partner who can speak their mind constructively is the be-all and end-all for you.
Talking about your feelings, both good and bad, is the only way for you to achieve real and lasting intimacy.
The sheep
If the first thing you saw when you looked at the picture was the sheep, you are a sensitive, romantic person who is easily hurt.
You have a literal treasure trove of love to give away, but you shy away from doing just that for fear of being rejected or worse, disappointed in every way possible.
You know it’s not easy to be like this, but you can’t help it.
You always want to feel one hundred percent adored.
You want a life where you are carried over the doorstep every day and surprised with flowers every evening.
You want a partner who turns up at your office and serenades you.
You also want someone who really means it.
You’re looking for a romantic life where romance is a given and the love behind it is undeniably sincere.
The cabins
If the first thing you saw when you looked at the picture above was the cabins, you’re the kind of person who is afraid of a real relationship.
In theory, you like the idea of having a partner, but the reality of sharing your life with someone terrifies you.
You have run away from good relationships before and may even have driven one or two partners away.
You don’t really want to be alone forever, but the idea of being in a “serious” relationship scares you off.
What you want from a relationship is friendship and physical intimacy without labels.
Other people can call their relationships whatever they want, but at the end of the day, what matters to you is that your partner is a friend – just a friend that you have sex with.
They know you need to slow down a bit, and they know it’s good for you when relationships aren’t perfectly defined.
Let others waste their time and nerves defining their relationships.
You could live forever without that stress.
The face of the man
If the first thing you noticed when looking at the picture above was the man’s face, then you are literally thinking big.
You can’t stop yourself from planning everything from what you’re going to eat the next day to where the kids you don’t even have yet are going to go to school.
It’s just the way you’re wired.
What you want most from a relationship is stability and control.
You feel most comfortable leading others and being in charge of your life.
A strong partner who is willing to let you take the helm is exactly what you need, especially if they trust you enough to sit back and not make waves.